Are you Afraid of Success

Are you afraid of success
Are you afraid of success
Are you afraid of success
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My title might sound to you like an oxymoron but hear me out.
Today I realized why I am not a millionaire because I was afraid of success all my life.

I am trying just to survive in a cut-throat world when the internet unleashed a lot of potentials but also helped crooks become rich.
So I was thinking that I was pretty young at the beginning of the internet and I had lots of ideas, however, I had no guts to try my idea.
And then I realized how many liars and cheaters are around us, and how many of them deceive us with their well-written articles.

Example of People That Succeed and How they act

Let’s take one example. Please, N.P if you recognize yourself in this article and, if you read this, do not get upset because in the end is just the truth.
OK, so this person calls himself a big SEO and repeats what Matt Cuts says and acts like a big shot, even his business that is recorded in Nevada is named ” I’m Kind of a Big Shot”. (Name changed to protect the innocent)
Really? How arrogant.

Just because you have money – you should not flaunt them to anyone’s face, there are people that are kind of big deal but can’ t make it because you cornered the market.

Why I think he is a hypocrite

He sends lots of newsletters in which he brags how many people visits his website and how he makes millions.
OK so one week I received a message in which he brags how smart he was and how he made a million, and next week, he sends a new newsletter in which he says ” you should not say on the internet how much you make”
Really?
So which is? Should I tell or should I not.
Well but this article is not about this entrepreneur or about bashing his credibility- anyhow you or I do not have enough money to pay his majesty for SEO.
This article is just an explanation of how bold this entrepreneur is.
Bold pays off.

Besides that, it seems to me that being a narcissistic, psychopath is the only way to become richer in this world.

No person kind and warm will ever be rich.

Just a few days ago I read the case of an old woman who is 90 and sues her own son, that he made bad investments with her lottery winning money.

You are ninety years old woman, how long do you think you have left?
And why sue the only person that will inherit your money. Do you think you are immortal?
So I read through the news and I read through the whole internet and I realized, good people are afraid of success.
Supposing you have made a business and is growing as Amazon did, would you do what Jeff Bezos did?

  • Would you invest in robots and cut out the workers?
  • Would you look for ways to become more richer even if you have only 40 years left to live and you can’t even spend a quarter of what you have now?
  • Would you dip in all the industry – pharmaceutical, food industry, movies, television, books, apparel, etc.

I guess you will not, and this is why I think you are afraid of success.
I know I am.
If you study the human behavior of rich successful people, look at their faces and realize that they are Godless.

I used to sell in Amazon but Amazon got greedy and my sales went from $1000 a month to $200 if I am lucky.
Their rules do not apply to them only to you the third party merchant.
Do you see the name they give privates seller? Third Party likes the “third country.”

So let’s wrap it up.

You and I are destined to live a normal banal lifeong> with ups and downs, with fears and worries from paycheck to paycheck.
What makes us really happy is that in the end, even rich people die, so there is justice.
The universe arranged things in a way that was supposed to be arranged, and in the end, we all are equal.
I am sure the rich are still looking for ways to trick death and live forever, and every time they are closer, something happened and Mother earth shakes her skin and humanity starts from zero again, and again.
You didn’t think that a planet that is 5 billion years old had only 5 thousand year civilization.
Every time, the Equalizer makes justice.
So now if you are not afraid of success then prove it. Work hard, walk on cadavers, destroy business and be who you want to be.

Disclaimer:
All the examples of this article were made with the intention to illustrate that few people who are not afraid of success – are succeeding.

The Art of Being Assertive and Saying No without Hurting Others

Being Assertive
Being Assertive
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Being assertive does not mean attacking or ignoring others’ feelings. It means that you are willing to hold up for yourself fairly without attacking others.”

  • Albert Ellis

When someone asks you for a favor, you probably always see yourself to be nodding in agreement and saying yes while inside, you are screaming no, loudly. Well, you are not the only one my dear.

There are hundreds of you, kind-hearted people, who don’t know how to say no and often end up being taken for granted and even exploited. You can say, I am also someone like that.

Kindness and the World

But after year, and in a hard way, I have learned that saying “No” is a necessary ability that one must possess.

However, I also understand that it is equally difficult for us to actually use this in reality.

When we grow up with all the guidance and better sense that our parents enrich us with, we also learn that we should be there for the people we care for, for them whom we love.

With time, this idea of being there, (even when we are not needed), becomes ingrained in us.

We stick there, for our family members, for our friends, for our love. But what we don’t understand that we are not exactly appreciated for that.

Are you wondering why so? The simple answer is that the world we live in is very unfriendly, my dear.

With time as we grow up, we become self-centered and perhaps selfish too. We choose to ignore what someone else is going through just to be there for us.

We take them for granted because we never knew that what it will be like if that kind-hearted person suddenly walks out of our lives, saying no.

And that behavior hurts them the most. When you are putting efforts, you don’t always need a reward.

But for those efforts, a bit of appreciation is necessary. And when we don’t get that, it hurts.

Mastering the Art of Assertiveness

That is why, even though it seems almost impossible, you must learn to be assertive. To survive in a world, where decency and understanding are often considered as a weakness, assert yourself. Say “No”, loud and clear, but of course not hurting someone else.

Are you wondering how this notion can be possible, then you must take a look at the following points. Here, I am sharing with you what I have learned from my experiences in life. Read on.

Understand the Difference

The basic difference between being assertive and being aggressive is how our words and behavior affect the rights and the well being of others.”

  • Sharon Anthony Bower

The first and foremost thing that you have to do is, understanding the difference between saying “ No” when needed and being rude.

This is the primary dilemma of anyone who learns this for the first time. Say no to people but keep the sting of rudeness away from your voice or your gesture.

There is no need to be aggressive in your approach. Just utter the simple word “No” when you feel your boundaries are already stretched too far.

Understand what you should not do and what can be a too fetched favor from your end. In that case, make sure you are saying no.

Have a Clear Sense of Boundary

To say no and to understand where you must say no, it is necessary that you set a clear boundary.

Without that, you won’t be able to understand that you are already going too far by offering more than what they have asked for.

So, have a clear idea of how far you can go for someone.

For example, if you are accompanying a friend somewhere even when you have other responsibilities as well as a busy schedule, it should happen only once.

If you are doing it more than a couple of times already but you hardly get any appreciation from that friend ever, you are already stretching yourself too far. Set your boundaries and next time when you are asked for the similar favor, say no.

Don’t Feel Guilty

There are often many who feel guilty for saying no. And if you are doing for the first time, you are surely going to feel extremely remorseful for this.

But don’t give in to your remorse. It is better that you think of it as a cleansing phase in your life.

After the initial remorse is gone, you will realize that this step of yours is actually for good and it will also make you feel lighter.

It is not a crime to say no my dear. It is just a way of healthy communication by asserting yourself clearly.

Know Where You Must Not Say No

It is again a necessary step in the right direction. Being someone who is newly learning to say no and denying to stretch unnecessary boundaries, it often becomes a struggle to understand where you must not say that.

In fact, there are situations where even when you know you are going far beyond what you should do, you have to go there.

When it is the question of the necessity of your loved ones, it is obvious that you don’t like to say no. Remember here that “Assertiveness is your ability to act in harmony with your self-esteem without hurting others.”

In the process, if you see that the loved one is on the dire need of your assistance, care or help, don’t hesitate or say no.

Again, for this, learning to set the boundary is important. Once you have the concept clear in your head, you will be able to quickly recognize where you are needed the most. In situations like this, to be honest, appreciation takes the backseat.

The knowledge that the loved one is well is enough to give you peace.

So, now as you know about how it is necessary to be assertive and how you can say no and where you should say no, start practicing.

Honestly, you will get better in recognizing the need for it with more time and practice. Remember, “What you allow is what will continue.”

Stop Self Sabotaging Yourself

How can you Stop Self Sabotaging Yourself?

Stop Self Sabotaging Yourself
Stop Self Sabotaging Yourself

You got drunk again last night, hit the snooze button too many times this morning, and now you will be late to work, again. You hope your boss doesn’t notice but, you know he will. Why do you keep doing this to yourself?

You can remember as a child your dad would come home late from work smelling like alcohol. Oh well, I guess it runs in the family. There is nothing you can do about it.

Your mom always ate too much and got as big as a house now your sister is like that too. That is the family trait she gets to carry.

Some people are born rich, some are born good-looking, and some don’t have anything going for them except for a crappy job.

Why are you doing this to yourself?

We create problems in our lives or self-sabotage when we allow the way we conduct our everyday life to interfere with our long-term goals. We drag our feet; we take medication with other drugs or alcohol, we eat too much, we cut ourselves. These acts seem to help us at the time, but over the long run they harm us and keep us from growing as we repeat them over and over.

All of us have a little voice in our head that criticizes everything that we do or say.

When we were babies and small children, our parents and caregivers gave us the voice in our head, and it formed our experiences. It was the voice that said we needed to be careful, don’t touch the hot stove and all the other things that were told to us good and bad. Our parents and caregivers did the best that they could. They had their problems and viewed themselves as failures, weak, and had self-sabotaging attitudes towards themselves. They probably felt insecure about their looks, or maybe they were not comfortable about being out in social situations.

We take their voice, and it stays with us throughout life, and we allow it to define us as an adult. When we were young, we were called lazy, useless or ineffective. We continue to wear that badge proudly as an adult. Then this turns into self-sabotaging thoughts and behaviors that tell us “Why bother? You’ll never change anyway.”

Similarly, children can internalize negative thoughts that their parents or early caretakers have toward themselves.  If we grew up with a self-hating parent, who often viewed themselves as weak or a failure, we might grow up with similar self-sabotaging attitudes toward ourselves. For instance, if our parent felt critical of their appearance, we may take on similar insecurities without realizing it. We may feel easily self-conscious and less sure of ourselves in social or public situations.

As author Elizabeth Gilbert put it, “You need to learn how to select your thoughts just the same way you select your clothes every day. This is a power you can cultivate. If you want to control things in your life so bad, work on the mind. That’s the only thing you should be trying to control.”

 

Where Self Sabotaging Thoughts Come From

Our inner voices are critical of us and encourage us to act out and become defensive in all areas of our lives. This mostly affects our close relationships. They are often what holds us back from getting what we want, and we become fearful that we will be hurt just as we were when we were children. We may even choose a partner who plays into this scenario so that we can recreate and maintain the identity we have held onto our whole life and keep the memories alive.

If we can slow down and get to know ourselves, it can help us to avoid self-sabotaging. We can get to know our inner critic and understand that it no longer serves us. Understanding our past free’s us from it so we can be successful for our future. Once we familiarize ourselves with our defenses, we can differentiate from self-sabotaging behaviors and live a more liberated life, in which we are more powerful and much more in control of our destiny.

Be kind to yourself. ALWAYS! You are worthy!

If you are interested here is a subliminal program that deals with self sabotage.

Disclaimer: We do not want our words to hurt you are call you names, this article is just a description of how a self sabotaged person might think.

The story, all names, characters, and incidents portrayed in this article are fictitious. No identification with actual persons (living or deceased), is intended or should be inferred. No person or entity associated with this article received payment or anything of value, or entered into any agreement.

Overcoming Fear of Aging (Gerascophobia)

Fear of Being Old
Fear of Being Old

‘Age is only a number…’ Oh, the agony of such a trite phrase. Wait, is it truly that trite of a phrase?
As each year elapses, each day that passes, and each second ticks by, many of us unnecessarily cruise through them with full blown Gerascophobia. What on Earth is Gerascophobia? In simple terms, it is the fear of getting old.
If there is one single thing that fastens every human together, it is the fact the none of us can escape aging. Of course, old age is inevitable… at least we’d like to hope so, as the alternative is not nearly as appealing!
Let’s ponder our ‘fears’ for a moment… In regards of aging, we, as humans, have conjured up the thought that it is a disease to be combated with all our power! That is not Universal. It is not ‘natural’. In fact, over the years of population build up, this outlook has been completely made up. From nothing. And then it was taught and spread from ear to ear, until the fear of aging became a plaguing factor over many lives. However, anything you have learned, can be ‘unlearned’.




We’ve seemed to have lost complete touch with the certitude that we should honor old age. With age comes unconditional wisdom. Many countries still firmly trust and believe in this perception! They praise and revere the elders, and the elders give mutual respect in the way they carry themselves, with honor.
There are several reasons and causes for the age-old trepidation of aging. Fortunately, with a trifle of patience and a positive outlook, there are many more reasons taking on age can actually be pleasurable and even relaxing.

Positiveness is embedded inside our minds, inside our main frames. Unavoidably, in fact. And that positivity holds the key to fighting the dread of the inevitable. Tools are being created specifically for this reason alone.
These tools are better known as Subliminal Messages. The sole purpose of the subliminal message is for it to enter your mind on the unconscious level, then proceed to change your outlook on life as they embed positive thoughts into your mind stream. This, in return, has been proven to help you feel a bit more youthful and even appear to be younger as you endure the unpreventable.

You can buy Overcoming Fear Of Aging or Look 10 Years Younger

See how they work for you.

Create your Own Subliminal

Make your own subliminal

Create your Own Subliminal

Make your own subliminal
Make your own subliminal

Custom Subliminal A Reality New and Innovative with Sprudio

Sprudio is offering custom subliminal message service where the users can tailor their subliminal message  according to their specific personal improvement needs. The company has promised best audio in the market.

So you want to succeed?

No more incomplete results with generic subliminal messages – Sprudio has brought in custom subliminal assistance for the first time in the market to assist in the most effective personal development.

So what is Subliminal?

Subliminal audio is a strategic tool designed to aid a person in recovering from a distracted behavior when he is determined to change himself. It helps a person to reach up to his goals through affirmative and inspiring suggestions.

The users at Sprudio can choose from different music backgrounds embedded with subliminal message, nature sound or pure subliminal with no background also called silent subliminal.

“The generic self-hypnotic messages are doing the rounds for quite some time now but they can’t be effective to everybody. Every individual is different and hence a tailored subliminal is most important to address his or her specific needs to the fullest. Thus, we have introduced strategic custom subliminal message service to ensure the best compatible personal improvement”, stated one of the founder members of Sprudio.


What sprudio said when interviewed?

Sprudio is an endeavor by certified hypnotherapist couple Elena & Dave, both of whom are accredited by Hypnosis Motivation Institute, Los Angeles. The couple brings in 50+ years of combined technical, education, professional & life experience.

“We use the most advanced subliminal technology and you will get real subliminal here- no placebo. Your positive progress is what we are aimed at and we strive to live up to the 100 percent positive feedback & rating that we are receiving from our customers. Our exclusive sound & quality have earned rave reviews from our long list of content clientele.”

The user can compose his own custom subliminal message here as per his own needs. In case, he is not exactly sure about the whole script, the Sprudio team would help once the user submits his main idea. For background track, Sprudio offers a selection from a wide range of 20 music samples including ocean & nature sound.

The users are advised to use first person, present tense and avoid negations in their custom subliminal messages.

“Our constant research on improvement has led to comprehensive series of self-help audio CDs which are used by psychologists as well. We bank on the best audio in the market & we include extra material with each order – as we want you to understand precisely how to attain the best outcome. Whether you are looking forward to success beating depression or lethargy or struggling to quit a nasty addiction- our custom subliminal would be the thing for you”, noted the senior manager from Sprudio team.

 

If applied correctly, the user would start experiencing benefits after around 14 days.

 

The customers can choose from 3 types of subliminal MP3/CD orders- MP3 for 10 minutes, for 30 minutes (same day delivery) and CD shipping for 60 minutes.

“Every CD is crafted in our studio with great care & includes unique premium calming sounds & subliminal content so that you can relax & sleep better- one of the most vital needs for health, happiness & success in life.”

About SPRUDIO– Led by accredited hypnotherapists, Sprudio offers a custom subliminal service for the most effective personal development of individuals.

For more information, please visit  Sprudio.

Why You Need A Professional To Help Make Your Own Subliminal

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Subliminal technology and hypnosis have advanced throughout the years. Today no one can deny the positive aspects of subliminal! Subliminal can have a myriad of benefits and the benefits only improve when you are the one that has the power to make the subliminal tailored for your own needs. If you ever wanted to make your own subliminal, you are at exactly the right place!

Due to the excessive demand customers now can make their own subliminal with the help of a professional. A custom subliminal can help you immensely to gain the results you want more quickly and efficiently! With our custom subliminal services you will truly be able to Make Your Own Subliminal and unlock the doors to your unconscious mind and alter it any way you like with the help of your own custom affirmations! With truly professional custom subliminal service, what you can achieve is only limited by your imagination! You can bring about any change in your personality, get rid of a long lasting trauma, get over a broken heart or just all around enjoy life to the fullest without having to worry about the unnecessary things.

Why Make Your Own Subliminal With A Professional?

Subliminal Helps your Brain

Many online sites might have had claimed that you alone can come up with a subliminal that would be as good as professionally created a subliminal. Likewise, you must have seen countless ad’s and articles about various unheard of subliminal creation tools that deliver high quality subliminal. But the fact of the matter is that neither of them are true! One site in particular Sprudio.net only have the well being of their customers in mind, thus, they consider it their responsibility to warn all the customers about sketchy software’s who have nothing to back their claims.

Sprudio.net has been in the market for years and they know how far people are willing to go to gain a benefit from you! It happens more often that you find an article or blog post, telling readers that each individual can do something better than or as good as professionals can do! Do yourself a favor and check before clicking any links on the article whether they are a direct link to a site or an affiliate link. In case it’s an affiliate link the writer is definitely trying to a profit by directing to a sketchy site!



Most subliminal software’s people find on the internet have only a single track that is ripped off from a trance album and asks you record and add your own subliminal positive affirmations. There lies the second problem! The fact of the matter is that you don’t exactly know just what a positive affirmation exactly is. Many people without knowing confuse affirmations with negations. An example of this would be, people confuse “ I will not smoke” with “I am smoke free”. The former is a negation that will have very little effect of the subconscious mind whereas the latter is a positive affirmation that will compel your subconscious o give up smoking for good! When you Make Your Own Subliminal having a professional like Sprudio will guide you through the steps can make a world of difference.

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Become Healthy And Stay Healthy Using Your Mind

Health Subliminal
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Health Subliminal Audio From Sprudio

Having good health is by far the most important aspect of life but in today’s hectic time we just don’t have enough time to pay attention to ourselves and maintain proper care of our physical and mental health.

 

There are various methods you can use to improve health and well being but sticking to one for long seems extremely difficult for most people.

But why is that? It’s because we are so caught up in our day to day routines that we can’t take the time and focus on revitalizing ourselves.

Most people eat without constraint, get close to no exercise, and even take part in activities tat harmful to both the body and mind.

If you truly want to regain your balance and improve health as well as well being than this Health and Well being Subliminal will help you gain a sound and healthy body by following the laws of attraction.

Using the law of attraction you can attract positive energy and focus on your health in order to improve it. If you are sick of being sick then this Health and Well being Subliminal CD is exactly what you needed to recover and get back on your feet.

 



By listening to the powerful affirmations in this Health and Well-being Subliminal CD you will be subconsciously adapt to changes in your life that will help you focus on improving your health and well being.

By using this Health and Well being Subliminal CD you will align your subconscious and conscious mind together giving you the support you need to fully commit yourself to living a healthier lifestyles which will include working out, eating less and taking better care of your diet to maintain a healthy body and mind.

 

With the powerful affirmations in this Health and Wellbeing Subliminal CD you will be able to remove harmful toxins form your body and your life. Not only will this Health and Well being Subliminal CD give you the support you need to live a healthier lifestyle but will also increase the rate at which the body heals itself as well as filling your life with health and vitality.

 

This Health and Well being Subliminal CD will help you attract health and become healthier not only physically or mentally but rather in all fields of life. Buy this Health and Well being Subliminal CD today and enjoy a long and healthy life.